My best friend hated my husband. She always said…

My parents divorced when I was young, and my mom remarried very quickly. When my dad’s mom died about 5 years later, I found a notebook in her closet with detailed notes about my mom and stepdad based on information that my grandma had gotten from me and my little sister.

Apparently, she was convinced that my mom and stepdad were unfit parents, and the notebook was for a lawyer because they were, trying to get my dad full custody.

Of course, neither of those things were true, and she eventually calmed down about the situation when she saw how much we loved my stepdad. But it was still shocking for me as an 11-year-old to read a bunch of misinformed, paranoid entries intended to paint my mom in the worst light possible.

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